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Inspired by [livejournal.com profile] susandennis's post on photography, The Family of Pix.

I inherited photography from both sides of my family. We always had lots of photographs, in fact I have an album with pictures of many ancestors I never met. One of the oldest photographers I knew was my great grandfather, William Kenneth Ford, who I called Poppy. He lived in Windsor, Ontario, but worked as a draftsman in Detroit. Every day until he retired at age 75 he walked through the tunnel under the Detroit River to the Penobscot Building. Working in a patent office, he had access to many new inventions. He even had an early home movie camera. Here is a still photograph he took of my great grandmother, Laura Mary (Frederick) Ford, who I called Dommy. The baby on her knee is my grandmother, Thelma May (Ford) Tobin, who is still alive. This photo must have been taken the year she was born, 1912. The location is the Windsor docks on the Detroit River. Somewhere my parents have movie film taken in the same location, possibly the same day, but it is damaged beyond repair. Dommy lived to be 103 and died in 1996



This was my mother's family, but my father was the photographer when I was growing up. The images from their early marriage are Polaroids, but by the time I was born in 1964, he had a better camera. This was taken the day I came home from the hospital.



Dad began taking pictures of landscapes and closeups of nature. My brother, Mike, and I both acquired an interest in art and photography from him. I received my first instamatic camera when I was eight. My parents took me to Williamsburg, Virginia one spring. Holding the camera by the cord, I constantly swung it in circles. In every photograph Dad took of Mom and me, you can see that camera flying at some silly upward angle from my hand. Those were the days when things didn't break easily and I had the camera for a few years.

In my teens I began using Dad's camera to take pictures of wildflowers. In 1980 when we camped in the Rockies with Mike and his wife, I spent hours photographing wildflowers. I still have all these on slides. As a grade 12 graduation gift, my parents gave me a Canon AE-1. Later they gave me a 70-210mm zoom lens. For the next few years I was an avid photographer. Here is one of my favourite photos I took of Mom, circa 1987, at home on the Lake Erie beach.



The same camera became a tool of the trade when I studied journalism and became a reporter for The Hanover Post. I learned how to develop and print film, and dreamed of having my own dark room.

Dad lost interest in photography for a while and Mom became frustrated with the lack of a family record. Eventually she got an instamatic camera and started taking snapshots herself. Nowadays they both use the same camera and photography has become part of the characteristic natter of a couple married 53 years: "Make sure you gets pictures of this, Don."

After becoming unemployed I could hardly afford to buy and develop film, so I gradually stopped taking pictures. Mom and Dad gave me the Kodak DX3500 for Christmas two years ago. I was frustrated by the lack of control over focus and light exposure. At first I didn't use it much except to record events.

That changed after I joined LJ and saw other people posting the kinds of photographs I used to like taking.

Date: 2004-01-10 03:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daisydumont.livejournal.com
how beautiful your mother looks in that last photo! the baby photo of you looks remarkably like the pictures i've seen of you as an adult. i love old photos. :)

Date: 2004-01-10 03:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mattcallow.livejournal.com
great post!

hmmm, detroit, so Ford as in FORD?

Date: 2004-01-10 03:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vaneramos.livejournal.com
My eyes haven't changed much, have they; just become a little less beady. Dad tells us they were wide open when the nurse brought me out to the waiting room to show him.

My parents were always a handsome couple. Mom's bout with cancer has taken it's toll, but she is starting to look better again.

Date: 2004-01-10 03:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] daisydumont.livejournal.com
i'm glad to hear she's looking better. i wish her very well!

Date: 2004-01-10 03:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vaneramos.livejournal.com
There might be a link, but we haven't been able to trace it. These Fords lived in Ontario at least since the mid 1800s. Poppy's father was a plumber. His grandfather was one of the founders of Queen's University in Kingston and also Ryerson University in Toronto.

Thank you

Date: 2004-01-10 04:06 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ranjtheobscure.livejournal.com
For that journal entry. It was wonderful to watch this theme across the space of time, in the breadth of a family.

I wonder at times about having an 'eye' for images, and how it runs in families. Perhaps this was a strength that the old guild system tapped into in a way we do not. Who knows?

Date: 2004-01-10 04:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chrisglass.livejournal.com
The photo of your mum is wonderful.

The quality of film photos is becoming approachable with the digital age (see [livejournal.com profile] sinnabor's journal). And I pine for more control myself. With that, I know I will also have to learn patience. To set up a shot before I just click the button. My goal is to jump back into the world of SLR digital this coming Christmas.

I'm glad you're back behind the lens. No matter what fashion.

Date: 2004-01-10 04:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] poetbear.livejournal.com
these are marvelous, Van! my favorite is the one of your grandmother. she was born the same year as my mom. it reminds me a bit of sepiapeople.~paul

Re: Thank you

Date: 2004-01-10 05:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vaneramos.livejournal.com
What an interesting idea. There is no doubt a strain of artistry in my family. Poppy's mother was an accomplished painter. I have one of her paintings; perhaps I will write about it sometime. Undoubtedly she passed her skill onto him, a draftsman, but whether it was taught or inherited is hard to say. He passed it onto my grandmother, who briefly worked as a graphic artist before she got married (around 1931!). My mother is more oriented towards crafts than the arts, but she has excellent taste.

Thank you for thoughtful words about this post.

Date: 2004-01-10 05:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vaneramos.livejournal.com
It certainly takes patience and practice, although I reached a point where manipulating focus, depth of field and exposure became almost instinctive, thanks largely to working as a reporter for a couple years. I hope I can get some of that spontaneity back. One of the nice things about digital is I feel far freer to take multiple images than I could ever afford with film. Thanks for the encouragement, Chris. It means a lot, coming from a photographer who I admire.

Date: 2004-01-10 05:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vaneramos.livejournal.com
Mmm, yes, that is an interesting journal.

This is close to the colour of the photo I have, which is a photo of a photo. I scanned it in black and white, then thought better of it and colorized the image back to sepia. ;-)

The image of my great great grandparents in the subsequent post was scanned in full colour.

Date: 2004-01-10 07:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] poetbear.livejournal.com
i'll have to admit to an extreme fondness for those
old snapshots, even sometimes when they're not as
well done as those. i really must get my son
or daughter-in-law over here for a day, just to scan
family photos and put them into some sort of online
album.~paul

Date: 2004-01-11 01:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] avad.livejournal.com
oh how wonderful. I just spent time with my family and at my grandmother's house stayed up half the night drinking in all the photo albums I could, wishing I could stare forever.
I am mesmerized by that first photo. Love old photos...Your great grandmother is so beautiful! And lived to 103!!!wow.

Date: 2004-01-11 01:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eloquentwthrage.livejournal.com
Can I ask where you post your photos? I would like to be able to paste pics in my entries as well, but Yahoo! doesn't allow the links.

Date: 2004-01-11 01:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vaneramos.livejournal.com
I'm enchanted with the photo, too, partly because I can see some of my mother's and daughter's feature. My great grandmother was more thoughtful than either of my grandmothers, and I have fond memories of her.

Sadly, arthritis confined her to bed for the last 15 years of her life.

Date: 2004-01-11 02:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vaneramos.livejournal.com
An LJ friend kindly hosts my photos on his web site. I have heard there are free file hosting services that allow remote loading, but I have not been able to find one. I'm considering getting my own domain, partly so I can do more with my photos. Sorry I can't be more help.

Date: 2004-01-11 02:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] avad.livejournal.com
15 years in bed??!!!!
wait a minute.
15 YEARS in bed??!!!
omigod I am unable to fathom! How did she spend her time? I MUST know!! I think of Jorge Luis Borges stories...and of Proust...and how the reliving of memories, the searching through rooms in the mind....can/must make time meaningful.
I just still cannot imagine. And YET, often I feel as if this life of mine...is merely a day of reverie...the moments stretched out as much as possible, the details 'fetched' and arranged around me so that I SLIP, forget, and become 'young' again...reLIVE.

Date: 2004-01-11 02:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vaneramos.livejournal.com
I'm just checking out this host: www.freeimagehosting.com. You might want to try it.

Date: 2004-01-12 07:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vaneramos.livejournal.com
Dommy's legs were twisted with arthritis and she was in a lot of pain. For a few years she lived with my aunt, and I think those were relatively happy. She was a sports fan and watched lots of television. I don't know whether she thought about the past much. She didn't talk about it.

Then my aunt got cancer and Dommy had to go into a nursing home. That must have been miserable for her. For years she talked about being ready to die. She went blind, but her mind stayed sharp. The last time I visited her, she hadn't seen me for several years, but she knew who I was. By then she had about 25 great grand children and 15 great great grandchildren. I took my daughters to visit her. Marian, who was two, was scared of her, but Brenna was only two months old. Dommy couldn't see her but was delighted to take her in her hands and give her a kiss.

Being blind and crippled she couldn't go anywhere or do anything. I spent a week in hospital last year, and I have never been so bored. I think it must have been awful for her. Her heart simply kept on going. In the end she stopped eating, and we believe she deliberately starved herself to death. It's sad that she had no other options.

Date: 2004-01-12 08:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] avad.livejournal.com
wow. how strange it is to think of being 'done living' and yet still alive. This is something I want to ponder a bit.whew.

Date: 2004-01-12 08:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] vaneramos.livejournal.com
My paternal grandfather was working in his vegetable garden one day. The next day he felt ill, stayed in bed, and died in his sleep that night. He was nearly 82 and had many interests. I would like to go that way. Based on my family's medical history I don't fear losing my mental faculties. But severe arthritis combined with blindness, as Dommy experienced, seems like a difficult combination. I am unhappy when I have nothing to do.
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