Family reunion

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Brother Mike probably hasn't been ignoring me this past decade, just busy. He and Dawn live in the woods, build log homes, and spend free time skiing. He helps their children's friends get started by hiring them for a season.

Vanessa, 19, can wield a mallet, but is also an articulate speaker. Look at her. Who, at a home show, wouldn't like to talk to her? While working with her parents she completed most of high school by correspondence, planning on university in January. She's interested in animal welfare.

Darcy, 20, studies business, writes rap lyrics and performs in a band.

The best part was hearing Marian and Brenna bond with Vanessa and Robyn, 23, an artist in fourth year at Ryerson University.

Mom and I sat in the sunroom discussing her cancer treatment. Mike joined us quietly, then Bob, fidgeting while she talked. Will we sit that way again?

Preparing to leave, I thanked Deb. In confidence she said, "I know a little of how it has been for you," meaning depression and anxiety. I had watched her keep busy preparing and serving food. A high school teacher and liberal thinker, she is the one who acknowledges my unease.



Four cousins: Robyn (b. 1983), Marian (1991), Vanessa (1986) and Brenna (1993)



Three brothers: Van (b. 1964), Bob (1951) and Mike (1954)


Two family websites I didn't know about:

• Cedar Log Structures by Mike and Dawn Waffle
• Darcy's myspace, his voice and rap lyrics