Wrestling with Stephen

[vaneramos]

Another shot from Elora yesterday


Ever since meeting dakoopst in Montreal for last summer I've had a smouldering fantasy about wrestling with him again.

I was never an athlete, and roughness hasn't been part of my physical vocabulary, nor did it appeal to me sexually until recently. But for some inscrutable reason, I like to be restrained. Part of the fun, of course, is resisting it.

Stephen and I are almost evenly matched. I'm two inches taller, and perhaps slightly stronger. But he is an experienced wrestler and knows the moves, the tricks. It's always enough for him to overpower me, which is what we both want in the end. After struggling long enough, I'm practically helpless and my entire skin is flushed, highly aroused.

This renews my motivation to work out before our next visit. If I do, he will have to do the same, otherwise he is going to be in deep trouble.

In a short while we're off to Toronto so I can show him around the city this weekend. We'll probably stop for a hike at Rattlesnake Point on the way, then hit the Art Gallery of Ontario if we have time. Bear night at O'Grady's is definitely on the agenda.





In the sculpture garden at MacDonald-Stewart Art Centre

Comments

[thewindrose.livejournal.com]

The photos from the sculpture gardens are amazing!! I love the combination of the beauty and creepiness of the first one especially.

Wrestling... that sounds hot. I'm still gently introducing such things to my beloved. He's sort of an old fashion gentleman so it constantly surprises him when I want to get rough. He's a quick learner though!!

[vaneramos.livejournal.com]

I visited that sclupture for the first time in October 2003. I took pictures at the time but the sky was heavily overcast and they didn't turn out very well. Its weathering fascinated me; I imagine its breakdown is partly intentional. The faces are made of different qualities of concrete so some will weather faster than others. This contributes to that creepiness.

It's wonderful to have a partner who is open-minded enough to try new adventures.

[quirkstreet.livejournal.com]

You forgot to mention that when you and Stephen wrestle with each other, it's not just two men with attractive bodies flailing limbs around (as true as that is, and as fabulous as that sounds). There's real people at home in those bodies, too, so when all the pleasurable resisting and relenting and such is over, there's still somebody to talk to.

There's nothing like overpowering, or being overpowered by, a sexy person whose physical attractions are dynamite and who you ALSO want to spend time with because they're such a cool human being. That's, like, nuclear meltdown hot.

And that photograph of him is gorgeous.

[vaneramos.livejournal.com]

It has been said before: the brain is the largest sexual organ. And probably the most interesting.

[dakoopst.livejournal.com]

I couldn't have said this any better myself.

[justapostcard.livejournal.com]

Love this entry!

... the sculpture part AND the wrestling part...!

[vaneramos.livejournal.com]

Glad you enjoyed!

[shawnsyms.livejournal.com]

>>Bear night at O'Grady's is definitely on the agenda.

I hope you guys had fun... I thought of stopping by there because you were in town, but I was too tired to stay up late enough!

[vaneramos.livejournal.com]

Would have been great to see you. I don't know whether we'll make it out again tonight or not. The three of us (Danny, Stephen and me) are all feeling a little toasty after visiting the art show in Nathan Philips Square this aft. Do you have any plans?

[shawnsyms.livejournal.com]

It'll probably be an early night again. I'm just getting over a flu. We'd talked about making the art show today, but I needed to rest instead.

[vaneramos.livejournal.com]

The flu at this time of year, arg! Well, get yourself better.

Is it "wrestling WITH Stephen" or

[gayhawk.livejournal.com]

(Stephen) wrestling with Stephen? Aside from the physical nature of wrestling, aren't we all wrestling a bit with finding ourselves and trying to "one up" the other, whomever that may be, in some way?

On the physical plane, wrestling with Stephen is very intriguing. On a sensual plane, it would be orgasmic. but on an ethereal plane, what would I really accomplish if I "won?" If I won, I'd lose, for me it's not winning that matters but being the one who loses all control and allows the other to take over.

And then again, if you really think about it, my giving that up is contorl...hmmm?