Go ahead and bully
Aug. 31st, 2006 01:54 pmToronto psychiatrist Joseph Berger, M.D., advocates school bullying as a valid therapy to discourage sexual variance in children:
I suggest, indeed, letting children who wish go to school in clothes of the opposite sex -- but not counselling other children to not tease them or hurt their feelings. On the contrary, don't interfere, and let the other children ridicule the child who has lost that clear boundary between play-acting at home and the reality needs of the outside world. Maybe, in this way, the child will re-establish that necessary boundary.This statement on the National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality website appears in response to an article in the San Francisco Chronicle about a private Oakland school that is throwing out gender boundaries. I wonder whether there is basis for action against a Canadian doctor inciting this kind of hatred.
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Date: 2006-08-31 06:53 pm (UTC)(I was writing a big long comment about this guy, but I think "Grrr" captures it.)
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Date: 2006-08-31 06:55 pm (UTC)Besides, isn't this weighted rather heavily towards boys?
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Date: 2006-08-31 07:34 pm (UTC)I wasn't aware that gender-specific dress was a "reality need".
What the hell does that mean?
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Date: 2006-09-01 03:27 am (UTC)(head explodes)
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Date: 2006-09-01 07:54 pm (UTC)I taught for a couple of months at a school here in a 4th grade class in which a boy named Thomas was a student. In all ways accept anatomically, Thomas was girl and the children treated him as such. He changed for gym in the girls' locker room, giggled with the girls during recess and drew princesses with glitter. Thomas' parents allowed him to choose his own clothes and he wore his hair shoulder length with a head band. I was so impressed by the whole situation because this is how it should be. Thomas was not at all insecure about who he was or who he should be because his environment accepted him fully as who he was. It allowed him to deveop his own identity as he saw fit. Noone made fun of Thomas. Noone even thought it was strange or different; it was just Thomas and Thomas had always been a girl.