Pressure tactics

[vaneramos]

And now, a complaint.

What is it with guys trying to fuck me raw first thing in the morning? While I'm still groggy, a naked cock starts slinking around my back door, looking to see if I'll let him in. Does he think I'm high on endorphins, in love with him or something? I'm not talking about my lovers. They wouldn't be lovers if they acted that way.

You know, I love getting fucked. And I really hate this behaviour. I don't necessarily disapprove of unprotected anal sex, but trust is based on communication, not manipulation. This has happened so many times it doesn't even upset me anymore. My ass is tight enough I can just lie there and wait to see how long it takes him to realize he's being stupid.

Years ago I was one of the stupid ones. Stupid and lucky.

On the other hand, I am reminded of a good buddy I hooked up with last summer. We were both drunk and high that night (which doesn't happen very often), enjoying the company and having a good romp. Suddenly he got an idea, rolled over, fumbled mysteriously in the dark, produced condoms and lube, then asked if he could fuck me, which he had never done before.

When someone appeals to my best judgment rather than my worst, that is a good friend and a good fuck, and I'm not afraid to let down my guard. But I already knew that about him, which was why I happened to be high with him that night.